When Teens Sex Addiction

  

When Teens Sex Addiction

Surveys conducted National Family Planning Coordinating Board in 12 big cities in Indonesia in 2010 revealed; 62.7% teens have had sex freely. More alarmingly, 21% of them even have an abortion. What can parents do to deal with this issue?

         "While it may be less representative sampling, which means that it could be drawn at random the numbers are not that high, but the survey was done by the government. I believe (this survey) is not arbitrary. Seeing the figure, certainly very alarming, "said Maya Trisiswati, Adolescent Friendly Clinic Manager and Head of the Division of Access and the Family Service Association of Indonesia (IPPA) DKI Jakarta.
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In another case, the story of Maya, there was a teenager who comes to HIV testing, for reasons never done a blood transfusion. He feels at risk. But after a long conversation, virgin finally admitted that he had had sex and multiple partners, so the fear of HIV infection.
After that, there is a mother-daughter pair who also came to consult, because the child is still in high school, pregnant. The story, the boy who likes to try (what?) Often get a chance alone with her boyfriend, then excessive sex. But shame on friends and neighbors, the boy's mother did not want to retain their agreement.
"But there are also teenagers who come from decent families suddenly came here and said they were afraid pregnant because her legs held by her boyfriend. We certainly have to be careful in explaining and convincing that what happened to him does not result in pregnancy, but if it continues with other activities, namely sex, she can get pregnant, because the stages of sexual behavior that could count minutes. Instance of kissing, necking, petting to intercourse, it depends on the situation in its favor. In 10 or 20 minutes can occur sex, while the skills to quickly realize that he could terjeumus in sex, not much older possessed, "said Maya.
Beware Sexual DisordersThere is little research to prove the benefits of sexual intercourse on a person's physical and psychological health. But otherwise, if done at an inconvenient time, such as by teens, it could be bad. Include the following:

    Unwanted pregnancies.
    Sexually transmitted infections.
    HIV / AIDS.
    Psychological disorders.
    Sexual disorders in adulthood.

      A teenager who had sex before marriage, the doctor said Maya, tend to experience some sexual problems such as vaginismus (vaginal muscle spasms that lead to the rejection of arousal or sexual activity), dispareneu (pain during sex), un orgasm (can not orgasm on during sex), vrigiditas (no sexual arousal).
That's because psychologically, someone who had sex before their time, keep a sense of guilt that he constantly brought up to get married. In addition, the social impact is also threatening, especially to those who are pregnant prematurely.
"Among these ideals were dashed and the future so bleak because of the opportunity to continue their education or find work smaller. High divorce rates can also be a result of forced marriages take place as soon as the woman is already pregnant. In addition, the younger pregnant women, a tendency that children born low weight, and even mental and physical disabilities, higher than the ideal age at which a person is ready to get pregnant, "says Maya.
So, as more devastating consequences, the elderly and the environment must provide lunch to children in order not to get carried away in the flow of free sex and stuck in a difficult situation. Parents should be able to be friends that encourage children how healthy dating.Baru! Klik kata di atas untuk mengedit dan m